B1 Intermediate Verb patterns, future forms, reflexives

Verbs with a change of meaning

Lesson goal. After this lesson you can tell apart the meanings of stop, remember, forget, try, regret with to-V and with V-ing.

When to use it

  • Saying whether you gave something up or stopped in order to do something else.
  • Reminding someone of a task, or recalling a past event.
  • A favourite exam point, because the meaning flips completely.

Form

Verb+ to + verb+ verb-ing
stopstop in order to do something elsegive up what you were doing
rememberremember you have to do it (a future task)remember that you did it
forgetforget you have to do itforget that you did it
trymake an effort to do something difficulttry something to see if it works
regretbe sorry to tell (what you are about to say)be sorry that you did it

Step by step

  1. Ask: has the second action already happened or is it still ahead?
  2. Already happened → V-ing.
  3. Still ahead, forward-looking → to + verb.
  4. With stop: to-V means you stop in order to do something new; V-ing means you end the old activity.

Four sentences side by side

Sentence
He stopped smoking.
He stopped to smoke.
Remember to post the letter.
I remember posting the letter.

Examples

He stopped smoking last year.
We stopped to buy some petrol.
Remember to lock the door when you leave.
I remember meeting her at the party.
I'll never forget seeing Ha Long Bay for the first time.
I regret to tell you that you did not pass.

Common mistakes

He stopped to smoke last year. → He stopped smoking last year.
stopped to smoke means he paused in order to smoke — the opposite of quitting.
I remember to lock the door last night. → I remember locking the door last night.
The action already happened → V-ing. remember to lock is only for a task ahead.
Don't forget posting the letter tomorrow. → Don't forget to post the letter tomorrow.
Reminding about a future task → to + verb.

Memory tip

One general pattern: to + verb looks forward (not yet done), V-ing looks back (already done). Remember the direction and the choice follows.

Summary

  • stop + V-ing = give up · stop + to V = pause in order to.
  • remember / forget + to V = a task ahead · + V-ing = a past event.
  • try + to V = make an effort · try + V-ing = experiment with a method.

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